He’s here…

Introducing our new son, born Sunday 28th September at 2.48am, 4 days after his due date. He weighed 8lb 4.5oz and is perfect.

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The Boy is settling in very well and its hard to imagine life before him. The Girl is loving being a big sister and has adjusted really well.

Boy and Girl Hospital

I have so much more to share, but right now I need to go and have some more newborn cuddles!

Preparing for Number 2

So it turns out that preparation for baby number 2 is about a million miles away from preparing for number 1! I’m 35 weeks now, so just 5 weeks left to go until my due date, but my preparation is nowhere near where it was at this stage last time.

Hospital Bag

I haven’t given my hospital bag any thought at all. I can’t remember what I took last time, let alone whether I used it all. I’ll be off to have a look at some other bloggers posts on the subject to start to put my list together and then get on and put it together.

These are a couple of useful posts on hospital bag essentials which I’ve saved to read.

Edspire, Unique and Chic, Oh So Gawjess

Nursery

So up until a month ago the nursery was also known as the junk room. You know the one, after you move house, where all the junk you don’t know what to do with goes in. It was a mammoth task one weekend to get it organised and cleared. Which we did. But then we started buying things for bump and its got full again! It feels too soon to take everything out of boxes but its looking a mess again. I need to rearrange things so that the clothes I’ve bought can be sorted and put away properly. I need to see what I’ve got so I can see what (if anything) I still need to buy.

Names

Baby number 2 is a boy and we are really struggling with names. I think that boys names are harder than girls and we seem to be having a lot more debates about names this time than last. We have 2 possibles now, but I wouldn’t be surprised if we end up with something completely different by the time baby arrives.

Equipment

We have moved house twice since L was born and what with the miscarriages we suffered and the very real possibility that we were going to stop at one baby, we didn’t keep much of the baby stuff from last time. I sold our pushchairs, bouncers, seats, high chair, play mats and much more at my favourite nearly new sales and baby markets. Which means we need to start again this time. I’ve managed to buy quite a bit second hand or with vouchers which has been great. Doubling up Tesco Clubcard points to spend at Tesco Direct has been fantastic for some of the bigger items.

So all in all, with just 5 weeks to go I’m not feeling terribly prepared. I also need to organise the house a bit, and fill the freezer with batch cooked food, oh and buy a present for L to give to the baby, and for baby to give to her.

Watch this space for updates!

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My Maternity Wardrobe

I’m trying to build a capsule maternity wardrobe this time around. Full of things that can be worn together and mixed and matched. As I’m not working this time its mostly casual things that I need. I thought today I would show you some of the basics that I have got already. I have really struggled to find maternity clothes instore anywhere this time around. When I was pregnant 4 years ago I was able to buy some stuff in store but now I keep being told I need to order online in most High St stores which I don’t enjoy doing so much. A large branch of H&M is the only place I have found so far to buy instore. I haven’t managed to get to a Mothercare, JoJo Maman Bébé or Mamas and Papas so far this pregnancy but I will soon. Oh and someone told me that Kiddicare do maternity clothes so that’s somewhere else I can try!

So what am I wearing lately…

More or less as soon as my 12 week scan was done and I knew everything was going well, I dug out the maternity jeans I’d kept from my previous pregnancy. A combination of an existing tummy and the baby meant that fastening myself into my normal jeans was getting pretty uncomfortable. I had passed on most of my previous maternity clothes to friends and family a long time ago, but a few key pieces I kept. They are all denim and all from JoJo Maman Bébé.

Mid Wash Bootleg Maternity Jeans – £29.00

Mid Wash Bootleg Maternity Jeans

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Firstly a pair of Bootcut Jeans. These are a real wardrobe staple and can be worn with most of my tops. I love the dark colour of these and the bump support is fantastic and very comfortable. I wondered whether having worn them for a previous pregnancy I would have stretched the elastic too far to wear early in this pregnancy, but it seems to have gone back to its original size and is sitting very nicely supporting my still fairly small bump.

Cropped Denim Maternity Jeans – £29.00

Cropped Denim Maternity Jeans

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

With baby due in September, I’m hoping for some nice weather over the summer so these Cropped Denim Jeans are another staple. These don’t have the full elasticated bump support, but instead have elasticated panels in each side which allows the bump to be supported and sit comfortably above. This is a much more comfortable style when the weather is warm as it stops the bump from getting too hot (Seeing as I am always hot in pregnancy this is a Very Good Thing!!).

Again the denim is lovely and soft and these cropped jeans go with most tops in my wardrobe. When the weather is picks up again, I’ll be living in these!

Mid Wash Pleated Maternity Denim Skirt- £29.00 

Mid Wash Pleated Maternity Denim Skirt

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My last staple from JoJo Maman Bébé is a Pleated Maternity Denim Skirt. This has been a great item to wear in both pregnancies and I have worn it in summer with a strappy top and flip flops, and in winter with thick tights and long boots. Another staple that can be dressed up or down and for all seasons. Again this skirt has the elasticated support which covers the bump and again, its so comfortable. The skirt has a pleat in it and is very flattering, its also a practical length which doesn’t cause me any issues when running around after a toddler!

I wore these three pieces throughout my first pregnancy, and now they are perfect for wearing through this one too. I pretty much live in denim at the moment!

For tops, I had a very successful trip to H&M in Westfield Shopping Centre in Derby a few weeks ago and this is what I picked up.

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I loved this MAMA Cotton Blouse – £12.99 so much that I got it in both colours, pink and blue. Its a cute little blouse for summer with a checked pattern and short puff sleeves. Its quite thin so best suited to a lovely warm day although I have also worn the pink one with a jacket over the top for a day out which looked nice too.

I picked this long sleeved top up as I thought it would be a great basic to wear when its not so warm. I can’t find it on the website but think it was around £12.99. Its a navy and white striped top which is shaped around the bump giving a lovely shape to the top. I think I’ll keep wearing this through the summer as its not too thick and there are always days that you want to keep a little more covered up!

The pink MAMA Jersey top £9.99 is another lovely basic. Its gathered around the bump and has a nice button detail on the neckline. The only thing with this top is I have to be careful as if the buttons come undone it can be a bit too revealing! Again this is a lovely thin top for the warmer weather but I’ve been wearing it with a navy cardigan while the weather has been a bit cooler. On the right is a navy and white polka dot round necked t-shirt (again I can’t find this on the internet) which looks really nice with denim and gives a lovely shape to my bump.

I’m sure my maternity shopping spree with continue over the next few weeks and I’ll be back to show you some more Smile If you have any tips on where to shop for maternity clothes please leave me a comment or tweet me @hellofromjoblog

 

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Pregnancy Update – 22 weeks

Pregnancy Update

Week 22

How can I be over half way through this pregnancy already?? Its crazy how quickly time is flying, and its a stark contrast to my first which seemed to move so slowly. I guess that’s the difference between sitting at a desk all day thinking about the pregnancy and chasing around after a 3 year old! There isn’t really much time to think about it 🙂

I’ve not had much time to take things easy this time around. In addition to being SAHM to Little Lady (3.5) we have recently moved house, and area, 200 miles from Devon to Derbyshire. When I told my midwife she rolled her eyes and said pregnant women are advised to avoid stress, err I don’t think I’ve managed that! Things have settled down though and life is fairly calm at the moment!

We had our 20 week scan last Friday, a little later than planned as we moved right when it was due. I did find out which team we are on this time, but will keep that a secret a little while longer as there are a few people in the real world who I haven’t told yet! Everything was good, and baby was moving around and showing its moves for us 🙂

Physically, I have a bit more energy now than I have for a while (am sure this is related to the move being over too!) and I’m not feeling too bad. I have started waking each night though, as I’m feeling uncomfortable. I’ve tried using a pillow for some support and this is helping a bit but I may need to look at maternity pillows which are designed for the job as I remember that this only gets worse as I get bigger. I also need to do some shopping for maternity nightwear and underwear, as my normal things are no longer comfortable. I expect this will help with the sleep thing too. I can’t really remember where I bought this sort of stuff from last time so need to shop around and see what I can find!

Little Lady is starting to understand a bit more now as well. She came to the scan and we’ve been talking about that a bit which has helped. She is looking forward to being a big sister, and is taking an interest in babies when we are out and about which is nice. She doesn’t believe that we know the gender though, and keeps telling us we have to wait and see when its born. I’m hoping to get her potty trained at night soon so that is well out of the way before baby arrives.

I’m feeling lots of movement now which is lovely and very reassuring. Its mainly when I sit quietly in the evenings or at the computer but sometimes I’ve felt a flutter while I’m out. I can’t wait until the movements get a bit stronger and more regular. I think it will be lovely when they can be felt from outside and Little Lady can feel them too!

Bump Watch – the first 12 weeks

I suspected I was pregnant towards the end of January, when I was just 4/5 weeks but waited another 10 days before I took the test. I was certain that it would be +ve though, as I had all the symptoms I’d had previously. Sore breasts, a queasy feeling, tiredness and a funny metallic taste in my mouth (not really sure what that one is about but I’ve had it for all previous pregnancies!).

I called my GP surgery to request an appointment with the midwife, and to get a call back from my GP. After previous investigations into my recurrent miscarriages, he had told me he would refer me for an early ‘reassurance scan’ for my next pregnancy. He agreed to make the referral and 48 hours later I got a phone call with an appointment for when I was 8+5 (by dates).

When the day came, I was feeling very nervous. It wasn’t possible for hubby to come with me for the scan – he had to stay home with the 3 year old, so I went alone. I had tried to prepare myself for bad news but was feeling hopeful. As soon as I went in for the ultrasound I felt terrified but it only took seconds to find the baby and a strong heartbeat. I was so relieved. Although things could still go wrong this was a very good sign. The baby measured a couple of days ahead of my dates and was strong.

The next few weeks passed quickly as we are also busy planning a house move and there was lots going on. Before we knew it, Tuesday was here and it was scan day! Again the nerves hit. The scan was great and immediately we could see a very active, strong baby. What a relief! Our due date was brought forward 4 days to 24th September which meant I was 12+6 at the scan.

I plan to blog a bump watch every week or two through this pregnancy so that I have a record to look back on when the little one arrives 🙂

The Reason For My Silence…

I think of my blog as a place to share nice things. Days out, cute photos, fun activities we have tried and adventures of everyday life. So when life gets tricky, the urge to write stops. That has been the case on and off over the last 18 months, life got tricky and I didn’t feel I wanted to share the details. The truth is, that we were trying for a second child – and nature was fighting against us. We suffered from what my GP described as Recurrent Miscarriage. I may talk about it in more detail soon, but not today.

Because today we are celebrating. This week we went for a 12 week scan and are delighted to announce that we are expecting a baby in September!

So 2014 is shaping up to be a pretty big year, with a new baby and The Big Move. And I’m looking forward to blogging my way through it all!

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