I think my favourite part of being a mum is watching my children explore the world around them, and experience things for the first time. On our holiday last week we took Little Man to the beach for his first play in the sand. I think he enjoyed himself, what do you think?
Hello – and thanks for stopping by on day 1 of my Blog Every Day in May Challenge (#BEDM) hosted by the lovely Rosalilium. Yes I have decided that the answer to my sporadic blogging is to challenge myself to blogging each day for the month of May – thats 31 posts, one per day. There are some prompts for each day – some I’ll follow, and other days I’ll do my own thing.
So the prompt for day 1, is Introduce Yourself which seems like a pretty good place to start! I’m Jo, I’m 33 and I am Mummy to my two little munchkins. The Girl is 4 and starts school in September. She goes to nursery 5 mornings a week and loves it. She also loves all things crafty, being outdoors and Disney Princesses! She was joined in September by The Boy who turned 7 months a couple of days ago. He is into cardboard boxes, strange coloured purees and his best friend is the baby in the mirror who we seem to bump into wherever we are. We have an almost 4 year age gap between the children which was not what we planned, but we are happy to have our family complete now.
Mr HFJ and I have been married for 5 years, and together for 14, since we met at University. We originally settled in Devon, but last year we relocated with his work and now live in North Derbyshire in the East Midlands. We are still finding our feet up here and enjoying exploring new places to visit. I’m an At Home mum at the moment and am very fortunate that we are able to make that decision. It’s something I love, although its also a challenge some days too!
You can look forward to learning lots more about us, and what we get up to over the month of May. We are off to Butlins for a holiday next week so I’ll show you what we get up to, as well as some home updates too through the month.
I can’t wait to find some new blogs to follow over the next month too. So if you’re reading please say hi so I can come and see your blogs too (and I talk to myself enough in the real world – I’d love to know that I’m talking to someone here!). Happy Reading.
After a tricky breastfeeding experience first time around with The Girl, I was apprehensive about how things might go this time around. Luckily, my experience with The Boy couldn’t be more different and now at 6 weeks old, I’m looking forward to continuing my feeding journey rather than ending it as I was with her.
The one thing I have always been nervous of is feeding in public. With ample equipment its hard to do things discretely – especially at the start when he and I are both learning the ropes.
The right clothing is essential. I’ve got a number of nursing tops, some better than others! But when I was asked if I wanted to review the breastvest, I was excited to test it and see if it was as good as it sounded!
The breastvest allows you to feed discretely while wearing your normal clothes – it turns any top into a nursing top. Here is what they say…
If you’re one of the many mums who have ever been worried about exposing your postnatal tummy when breastfeeding, or alarmed by the surprising cost of nursing tops, breastvest has literally got you covered!
breastvest is a revolutionary vest that makes any top a breastfeeding top! It was invented to make breastfeeding in public easier and to let new mums get back into their favourite clothes while still doing the best for their babies.
Created, designed, tested and approved by breastfeeding mums, breastvest is held in place by specially designed straps and sits just below your nursing bra, comfortably covering your postnatal tummy whilst offering a comfortable layer of support and modesty.
I loved the freedom that the breastvest gave me to wear my normal clothes and feel comfortable while being covered and comfortable while I was feeding. After several months of wearing maternity clothes while I was pregnant, its lovely to be able to go back to my old favourites and also pick up some new clothes without having to look in a special section of the shop! Between feeds I found the breastvest to be very comfortable, and didn’t really notice I was wearing it under my top. The black was a great choice for me as it works with most of my clothes, but I think I’ll be investing in a white one as well.
breastvest is available in sizes S, M, L and XL and comes in black or white plus a stream of Limited Edition colours and is priced at £14.99
I have one breastvest to give away to a lucky winner. To enter just follow the instructions on the Rafflecopter below.
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T&C’s: This competition is open to over 18s and UK entrants only. The winner will be randomly picked by Rafflecopter after the closing date 24th November 2014. I will contact the winner by email and will allow 4 days for a reply. If I do not hear anything within this time period I reserve the right to redraw a winner. Hello From Jo’s decision is final.
Disclaimer: I was sent one breastvest worth £14.99 for the purpose of this review
The Boy is just over 2 weeks old now and we have survived the first phase of life as a family of 4. Hubby is now back at work (today is his first day) so its only me at home with the children now.
These are a few tips that have helped me with the first few weeks…
- Accept Help When Its Offered. This doesn’t come naturally to me, but this time around I’ve decided that I need to accept help. My mum and my Mother in Law have both been great at helping out around the house, whether its running the hoover around, folding laundry or cooking meals. Its been a big help.
- Involve Older Siblings. The Girl is almost 4, and so excited to be a big sister. I’ve been taking advantage of this to get her to help out with things. She is great at nappy change time. She passes me the wipes, finds a clean nappy, and talks to The Boy when he cries. She loves this and it is a great help to me too.
- Rest Rest Rest I know everyone says that you should sleep when the baby sleeps, but that’s not necessarily practical, especially with an older child. I hate napping in the day – I always feel worse when I wake up than I did before the sleep. But there is definitely a case for resting through the day. Settle down on the sofa and watch a film, read a book or catch up on the soaps. Just take the weight off your feet and rest. It will help you cope with the sleep deprivation.
- Set Up Changing Stations. I have 2 changing stations one upstairs, one downstairs. Each has a change mat (I just use this straight on the floor – I don’t use a change table), and a box or basket full of nappies, wipes, bags, nappy rash cream and a change of clothes. This means wherever I am, everything I need is easily accessible. I also make sure that every room I use, has somewhere to put The Boy down. There is a swing in the kitchen, a play mat in the lounge, and of course the crib upstairs. I keep a blanket with each of them so if I need to put baby down, perhaps to deal with The Girl, I can easily.
- Always Wash Your Hair. Ok bear with me on this one. But I have discovered that a hairdryer is a great way of calming a baby. I pop The Boy in his crib and sit down to dry my hair each morning, and he enjoys either 20 minutes of peaceful awake time, or sometimes the noise even sends him to sleep. I had forgotten that we used a white noise track with The Girl when she was a baby so this is the same idea. It also means I feel relatively human each day and look fairly presentable. The same is true for the hoover if you feel like it….
Do you have any top tips for surviving the early weeks with a newborn? Feel free to share them in the comments 🙂
Introducing our new son, born Sunday 28th September at 2.48am, 4 days after his due date. He weighed 8lb 4.5oz and is perfect.
The Boy is settling in very well and its hard to imagine life before him. The Girl is loving being a big sister and has adjusted really well.
I have so much more to share, but right now I need to go and have some more newborn cuddles!
I am very excited to have been asked to join the #AsobiAmbassadors team as a guest blogger for August. This month the Ambassadors team are reviewing products from CALAFANT and we chose to review the Horse Drawn Carriage kit.CALAFANT is made from 100% recyclable cardboard and the pre-cut, pre-punched pieces slot together easily so that children can create their own masterpieces! They are easy to build, fun to decorate and strong to play with. The kit contained all the pieces to assemble the horse and carriage, and a set of 6 felt tip pens for decorating the finished item.
As patience isn’t L’s strong point at the moment(!) I decided to assemble the pieces before I gave it to her. I’m glad I did as at just 3 the assembly would have been too fiddly for her. It was quite simple to understand and only took me 2 minutes to do and for an older child I’m sure it would be fine. I found that all the pieces fitted together perfectly and the finished model was strong and sturdy.
When L saw the horse and carriage she was thrilled with it and couldn’t wait to get started on the decoration. She enjoyed using the included colouring pens on it, and later went to get her own crayons and pencils so she could add more colours to it!
I didn’t guide her at all with the decoration, and the end result is a bright colourful model which she has been enjoying using for imaginative play. Cinderella has made several trips to the ball in the carriage, and L’s favourite toy rabbit has enjoyed being the driver!
There are a whole range of designs to choose from, from simple vehicles to whole palaces and castles which look like they would offer hours of fun for older kids. We were really impressed by how sturdy the pieces are and the finished product stands up to lots of playing.
Having sampled what CALAFANT has to offer, I’d highly recommend these kits and plan to buy some as presents for Birthdays and Christmas. I know L would like to tackle one of the larger models too – the castle is next on her wish list!
Kind Toys are offering a 20% discount off all CALAFANT products throughout September using discount code CALAFANT at the checkout so please go and have a look at the other great products available.
I’m very excited to be able to offer one lucky reader their very own CALAFANT Horse Drawn Carriage Kit. To enter, please complete the Rafflecopter below.
You MUST leave a comment and follow @Asobi_Toys on Twitter (compulsory entries), you can also gain extra entries as shown in the Rafflecopter below.
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T&C’s: This competition is open to over 18s and UK entrants only. The winner will be randomly picked by Rafflecopter after the closing date 18th September 2014. I will contact the winner by email or Twitter and will allow 7 days for a reply. If I do not hear anything within this time period I reserve the right to redraw a winner. Hello From Jo’s decision is final.
For more reviews of Asobi products and more chances to win why not check out posts from A Mummy Too, Susan K Mann, Innocent Charms Chat, Red Rose Mummy, Real Housewife of Suffolk County and Lilinha Angel’s World.
It’s now just over 4 weeks until baby is scheduled to make his entrance into the world, and my thoughts are turning to the practical items that make life with a new baby easier and more enjoyable. As a second time mum the top of my list was muslins. Before L came along I didn’t really think they would be high on my list of useful items, but pretty quickly I came to realise that they had a multitude of uses, from mopping faces, lining cold change mats, comforters to sun shades and light blankets!
I was offered a pack of Sew Lomax Large Muslins to review and jumped at the chance. Each muslin is a whopping 100cm x 100cm and made from soft 100% cotton. They come in three colour choices, pink, blue and green and all feature some gorgeous Sew Lomax designs.
Each pack contains one safety pin print, one dummy print and one plain white with an embroidered safety pin in the corner. The set was beautifully boxed and would make a very welcome practical gift for a new mum. I chose to receive the green as I am trying to avoid having everything blue! Its a gorgeous colour and would be perfect for anyone who is expecting a surprise. The large set retails at £26 which I think is a fair price for the quality and size of these muslins. I can’t wait to use them on baby, and think they will make lovely comforters and swaddles for him. A small set of muslins is also available for £12.50 which has three 50cm square muslins in the same design.
The new range of baby essentials from Sew Lomax also includes dribble bibs and towel and flannel sets, all of which feature the same cute designs.
Emma Lomax has been taking the fashion and beauty world by storm for the last two years with her ethically produced collection of stylish wash bags & accessories and this Summer she introduced her highly anticipated baby range! Her debut collection of must-have essentials consists of beautifully designed and ethically produced muslins, dribble bibs and now baby bath time towel and flannel sets.
You can view the full debut baby collection at www.sewlomax.com
Disclosure: I was sent a pack of large muslins for the purposes of this review. All opinions are my own
So it turns out that preparation for baby number 2 is about a million miles away from preparing for number 1! I’m 35 weeks now, so just 5 weeks left to go until my due date, but my preparation is nowhere near where it was at this stage last time.
I haven’t given my hospital bag any thought at all. I can’t remember what I took last time, let alone whether I used it all. I’ll be off to have a look at some other bloggers posts on the subject to start to put my list together and then get on and put it together.
These are a couple of useful posts on hospital bag essentials which I’ve saved to read.
So up until a month ago the nursery was also known as the junk room. You know the one, after you move house, where all the junk you don’t know what to do with goes in. It was a mammoth task one weekend to get it organised and cleared. Which we did. But then we started buying things for bump and its got full again! It feels too soon to take everything out of boxes but its looking a mess again. I need to rearrange things so that the clothes I’ve bought can be sorted and put away properly. I need to see what I’ve got so I can see what (if anything) I still need to buy.
Baby number 2 is a boy and we are really struggling with names. I think that boys names are harder than girls and we seem to be having a lot more debates about names this time than last. We have 2 possibles now, but I wouldn’t be surprised if we end up with something completely different by the time baby arrives.
We have moved house twice since L was born and what with the miscarriages we suffered and the very real possibility that we were going to stop at one baby, we didn’t keep much of the baby stuff from last time. I sold our pushchairs, bouncers, seats, high chair, play mats and much more at my favourite nearly new sales and baby markets. Which means we need to start again this time. I’ve managed to buy quite a bit second hand or with vouchers which has been great. Doubling up Tesco Clubcard points to spend at Tesco Direct has been fantastic for some of the bigger items.
So all in all, with just 5 weeks to go I’m not feeling terribly prepared. I also need to organise the house a bit, and fill the freezer with batch cooked food, oh and buy a present for L to give to the baby, and for baby to give to her.
Watch this space for updates!
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When you first have a baby there is a huge steep learning curve. You have to develop a whole new vocabulary. Words such as weaning, winding and colic are all suddenly thrown about and you feel like you need a dictionary! When your newborn is crying inconsolably its very hard as a first time mum especially to know whether its perfectly normal or a possible sign of colic. I remember being told about Infacol, and advised that it may be something to try.
Colic affects one in four babies and is often associated with crying fits lasting for three hours or more, often during late afternoon or evening. Its a very distressing condition for mum and baby, especially because any attempts to soothe and comfort the baby may not work.
Colic is listed in the top three concerns of new mums according to a Bounty Research Poll so Infacol, Britain’s number one selling colic remedy, have launched the Virtual Colic Clinic app to help. It offers 24/7 support with video answers to questions about colic and can be accessed through smartphones, tablets and desktops. The information can be found at www.ColicHelp.co.uk.
Infacol’s Expert Midwife Nikki Khan says ‘Infacol want to give new mums and dads someone to turn to when in need of this extra support and guidance, at any time of day or night’. The Virtual Colic Clinic app follows the success of the ‘Is It Colic?’ web app which helps to identify whether a baby has colic through 10 simple yes/no questions.
As I prepare for the arrival of my second baby later in the year I’ll be bookmarking www.colichelp.co.uk for help if I suspect colic.
I was sent a goody bag by Infacol in return for sharing this information with you.
Back before Easter I was planning to compile and post a gift guide of ideas for Easter gifts and I spoke with Born Gifted, who had a great range of ideas. They offered to send me a copy of their Personalised Easter Bunny book which I gratefully received. Unfortunately the house move then took over and with over a month with no internet access I was unable to do the gift guide and feature the book. I can say though, that L loved the book, as did I. The story is lovely, and the personalisation on each page, and in some illustrations, was a huge hit!
So when Born Gifted contacted me recently with some Fathers Day gift ideas I was happy to share them. The thing that impressed me most about the selection was that there is really something for every budget. I particularly love this Personalised Owl Family Crystal Block for £19.99 and the Personalised Hardback A5 Notebook £13.99. Either of those would go down well as a Fathers Day gift here!
Many of the items in the range can be personalised which is a lovely touch for a gift to or from a child. I know L loves to see her name on things. Born Gifted also offer free UK delivery on all items which is brilliant!
While browsing the site I saw a couple of presents which would be lovely for a Christening I’m going to later in the year. Born Gifted really is a one stop shop for all gift occasions. Why not have a look?